Showing posts with label healthy body. Show all posts
Showing posts with label healthy body. Show all posts

18.3.10

bed day




On Tuesday, I had an important meeting. A lot was at stake. I had been preparing for months. I was stressed. It went well, and I was proud of myself. On Wednesday, as a mini retreat, and to nurture the bad cold I'd predictably come down with, I took a BED DAY. It was great. I highly reccommend it. Above are some scenes from my comfort zone. What does yours look like? (btw, my sweetie calls this kind of zone a woman-nest.)

12.3.10

bedtime


I've been struggling with sleep lately. For most of my life I've been a good sleeper; I love to sink in to my cozy, soft bed, I value my dream life, I like naps. In recent months, though, I've been struggling with light, disturbed, anxious, and sometimes sweaty sleep, and waking still tired. The lack of deep rest is taking its toll on my overall sense of well being. Last weekend I indulged in an hour with a really talented card and tea leaf reader - this was the kind of reading that gives you deep insight into the present, and access to some of the secrets of your higher self. One of the first things she said to me was "You have to start getting better sleep. You're having anxiety and impaired judgement due to lack of sleep." Well. That was it. I came home resolved to care for my sleeping self better! On the way home on the plane, I pulled out my journal and did a quick assessment of my current sleep situation: cluttered bedroom, worn sheets in a cool grey colour, TV at the end of the bed, snoring pug wedged between me and my sweetie. Also late nights, coffee in the afternoon, wine and dessert after dinner. Oh, and what ever happened to my yoga before bed? On the way home from the airport I bought new sheets, high thread count in a creamy vanilla colour, and also a bottle of melatonin. I used to have such a lovely bed time ritual, I do remember how to care for myself in this way - so over the last week I've been slowly slipping back into this really important piece of self-care. Here is a list of what I've been doing. How/what is your bed time ritual?

  • no screen time for one hour before bed
  • drink a big glass of water one hour before bed
  • long, yummy, candlelit scented bath
  • tidy, candlelit bedroom
  • fresh sheets
  • scented candle and/or incense
  • 15 or 20 minute restorative or detoxifying yoga sequence (again, candlelit!)
  • self-foot-massage with sandalwood scented oil
  • decaf tea and happy reading in bed
  • 3 mg melatonin
And hooray, the last two nights I've actually slept through the night. I feel better - better enough to be really motivated to maintain this routine of self-care. Are there any little changes you can bring in to make your evenings more peaceful?


11.1.10

a heartful collaboration - retreats for a woman's body and soul!




womens island retreat art dance creativity yoga womens island retreat art dance creativity yoga For a decade now, Gillian and I have been putting together annual retreats for women. Some of my sweetest, most soulful, most transformative moments of the last decade have happened in these wonderful groups of women! This year, we are both feeling a need to blossom into the world bigger, better, more, and juicier... so we are really excited to be crafting five retreat weekends, soulful getaways for feminine creativity, recharging, healing, and fun. They will be held at Arbutus Retreats, Gillian's beautiful island sanctuary, and will focus on journalling, art, yoga, dance, meditation, creating rituals of self care & embracing the sacred in daily life. Join our retreat mailing list if you'd like to know more. Upcoming dates for our weekend retreats are March 19, 20, & 21, May 28, 29, and 30, July 30. 31, & Aug. 1, September 17, 18, and 19. Each season on the island has its own magic and beauty; the mists and frogsong of March, the soft air and wild roses of May, swimming tides and long deep twilights of July, September's tall grasses and garden harvests. We hope you can join us for one of these magical weekends!womens island retreat art dance creativity yoga womens island retreat art dance creativity yoga womens island retreat art dance creativity yoga

14.9.09

ayurveda & maintaining balance in seasonal change

oil lamp symbolizing sacred connection to the seasons and maintaining balance through seasonal changes with Ayurveda
Staying connected to the rhythms and cycles of the natural world is very important to me. We suffer from too much separateness in our world as it is now; at worst, immersion in the modern world can create an almost complete estrangement from the true rhythms of nature. I believe this amounts to an estrangement from our bodies, our creativity, each other, and our deepest selves. When we work, live, and travel in comfortably controlled environments, communicate and receive information about the world through electronic devices, we need to remember to connect with the real, tangible, and powerful forces of our actual natural environment. If we can maintain that organic connection, then all the shiny tools and comforts of our created world can be enjoyed and understood, in the greater context of nature. Perhaps maintaining this connection can help us to create new technologies and comforts which work in harmony with nature.

It's not such a daunting task, staying connected. Just pay attention - to the weather, to the moon, to the voice of your body, to the seasons. Get out there sometimes, and just be in the weather. Staying connected to the seasons has been a powerful practice for me since I left the ease and warmth of California for the intensity of the temperate rain forest of coastal B.C.. I love the times of seasonal change for the feelings of excitement and renewal they bring into my life. Like all times of change, however, the seasonal changes can bring a little vulnerability, and a challenge to stay in balance. Ayurveda, the traditional East Indian wellness practice, offers tools for staying in balance through the seasonal changes, and for keeping our bodies in balance with the larger rhythms. The transition into Fall is often a bit challenging for me, so I thought I'd look into how Ayurveda could help. Here's what I learned:

According to Ayurveda, September is the beginning of the Vata season, which lasts til around Winter Solstice. Vata energy is one of the three Doshas, or universal energies. Vata has the qualities of movement, activity, light, coolness, dryness, agitation. It is related to the element of Air. We are prone to imbalances of Vata during this season of late summer and early fall. Vata imbalances can manifest as:
  • an over-active, agitated mind
  • sleep disturbances
  • low immunity
  • achy joints
  • dry skin
  • loss of focus
  • chills
  • digestive problems
  • worry and anxiety
Right? I've been suffering from all of these things in the last couple of weeks! So what helps? Here are some suggestions I found for restoring balance during Vata season:

  • Stay hydrated by drinking lots of water or warming herbal teas.
  • Keep to a regular, and gentle, schedule, especially with sleep. Go to bed early, and rise early.
  • Practice restorative yoga or another gentle physical practice - stay active without overdoing.
  • Stay warm! Practice gently warming yoga poses like backbends and extensions.
  • Eat warming cooked seasonal food like squash, brown rice, and nourishing soups.
  • Take immunity enhancing herbal supplements.
  • Avoid too much travel, too much work, staying up too late.
These all sound like healthy, appealing suggestions, and I might even be able to integrate a few of them into my Fall routine. But the suggestion I liked the best was:
  • practice self-massage every morning with warm, scented oils (sesame oil is traditional.)
That sounds like a wonderful, self-nurturing practice, and well worth making time for. So if we do a few of these things, focus on slowing down, staying warm, and nourishing ourselves with seasonally appropriate foods and activities, (common sense, right?) then we can expect to experience the best of the Vata season, which is:
  • healthy energy
  • clarity of mind
  • awakened senses
  • renewed sense of purpose
  • positive momentum
Ayurveda is a sophisticated and complex ancient science. I found a good lay person's introduction here, if you are interested in learning more.

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